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The Bellman

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He works at an upscale property on the strip but he sees me to get his fix. Finding himself in an unhappy marriage, he comes to me weekly for needed companionship and release. And man, is this guy hot! Now, I am not worried about looks. I am for hire, not dating. But there is something about this guy that gets me super hot!

I think he thinks I’m hot too. The last time he came over he asked if we could start with the happy ending because he was really horny. “Of course”. So the first half hour ended up being sensual play – SO HOT! I didn’t rush him, I actually let it stretch out til he asked me to make him cum. And then when he did I had to excuse myself to go to the bathroom and clean up – I had become extremely aroused!

I finished his hour working on his neck, back, glutes, legs and feet. He likes to hear about all the adventures I’ve had since his last appointment so we chat away. When we’re all finished, he gets in the shower and gets going back to reality.

About Draping

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Draping is that top sheet the massage therapist puts over you during a massage. Then, as each part of the body is worked on, it is exposed, the sheet is pulled back and tucked under the body a bit to hold it in place. In this way the client maintains modesty and the massage therapist upholds their ethics of not being sexual in any way. Therapeutic only.

I do not require draping. I ask if it is desired. I do know proper draping methods. If it is I know the client is more modest and may not want erotic/sensual techniques. If they do not want draping then I assume that they most likely want the erotic/sensual techniques and “happy ending” or “release”. If I am unsure I always ask.

I hope this explains some of the terminology of the massage ads. So many of my clients have no idea how to know if they’ll be getting a therapeutic or sensual massage – or something in between.

Non Erotic/Sensual Verbage:

  • LMT or CMT (Licensed or Certified Massage Therapist. They generally abide by the sexual ethics taught in massage school and their boards of certification)
  • Draping Required (while I haven’t found it explicitly stated in the laws that draping is legally required, again, this is part of a code of conduct used to maintain ethics)
  • Strictly Therepeutic
  • Non-Sexual
  • Different fees are listed for different time frames/modalities

Erotic/Sensual Verbage:

  • A flat rate or no rate is listed
  • Saying “you will be happy at the end”
  • Draping optional
  • Sexy/revealing photos (as in many asian ads)
  • A price over $100/hr ( the national average is $60/hour for incall)
  • Nudity is offered

If you look at a lot of ads please post any of your personal observations or opinions. All comments will be kept confidential!

Talking During Massage

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In school, licensed massage therapists are taught to be quiet letting the client relax as completely as possible for the highest therapeutic affect. While I understand the benefits of that and do accommodate when it is preferred, I have found the talking to have it’s own therapeutic effects:

  • You are able to get things off your chest.
  • We develop a better friendship.
  • I can customize your session much more quickly.

Sense most of my clients are not used to a masseuse who will talk to them, here is how I go about it:

  • I follow your cues. If you ask questions and initiate conversation I respond accordingly.
  • If I’m unsure I ask what your preference is.
  • If talking is uncomfortable while face down then I wait till you’re face up.

I really enjoy feedback. I know some therapists who don’t like to hear your sounds of approval. I do. It reinforces my intuitive style. Also, if I am doing something a little more extreme then I want to know right away if it’s working for you or not.

My clients have complimented my conversational skills. They have found me to be very easy to talk to and/or confide in. I am very responsive and mature. I also have a very eclectic background so I can talk about a variety of topics. And of course my own personal life is always great for conversation! I have a very unique lifestyle and it gives me tons of great stories to share with my clients.

Some recurring topics of conversation are:

  • the swinging lifestyle
  • sex in general
  • sex problems
  • women
  • business
  • travel
  • BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism and Masochism)

Please do comment if you have any questions or comments on this post. I would love to have some discussion here on my blog! Don’t worry – your identity will be kept anonymous!