Female Ejaculation | Squirting Orgasm | Class Video

Pencil illustration from "Sex for One" by Betty Dodson, 1986 for female ejaculation post

Happy February!  In honor of V-day (Valentine’s Day) I’m going to focus on the vulva and vagina this month.  I often talk about the anatomy of pleasure and I even made up a new word – vaginatomy!

Last week I hosted a female squirting orgasm class/party.  The party part didn’t really happen but the class was a huge success!  I also video taped it and am about to start burning copies… If you’re interested in getting one read to the end of this email to find out how.

Female ejaculation is so interesting to so many – I think it’s because it seems so mysterious.  And because not every woman does it.  Almost any female can do it (there is the very rare exception).  While 10% or so squirt without trying and the rest can learn if they want to.  It’s a matter of retraining your vaginal muscles to push out during an orgasm instead of pulling in.  That pushing out applies pressure to what are called the Skene’s Glands or vestibules – pockets of spongy tissue just below the surface of the vulva on either side of the vaginal opening.  The pressure from pushing can be increased with your fingers either by externally rubbing in a downward motion from the clit area to the vaginal opening or by internally rubbing the front of the vaginal wall pulling out in the “come hither” motion.  The fluid exits from the opening of the urethra.

female ejaculation coachMany women may be ejaculating without even knowing it.  The amount of fluid can vary from a few ounces to cups at the extreme.  It’s tough to notice smaller amounts because they get lost in the shuffle of pussy juice, lube and cum.  Also, the fluid often doesn’t squirt – it comes out as more of a gush.

Ladies:

Do you squirt/ejaculate?  Do you have any experiences you like to share?  Do you have any questions you’d like to ask?  Would you like to share any pictures or videos?

Men:

What do you think about female ejaculation?

Female Squirting Orgasm Video

This DVD will featured the half hour class followed by the half hour demo.  I’m also going to put on some clips of my other videos that show squirting.  The retail price with be $39.95 but you can pre-order it by Wednesday for $19.95.

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Rockin’ January

1-19-13 head shot grey dress compressedWooh, it’s been an awesome couple of weeks for me here in Las Vegas!  Last week the Consumer Electronics Show was in town and I was BUSY!  That has overflowed into this week too.  I’m very grateful that I was available to facilitate so much pleasure for so many people.  While some of the people I saw were just interested in relaxation and pleasure many were fulfilling a long time desire with my skills and talents.  I introduced several to anal pleasure, prostate massage and more.

I’m looking forward to this weeks big convention – The National Association Of Home Builders Show International Builders Show (aka NAHB IBS).

Saturday before last I taught the class 7 Simple Steps To Raising Your Libido
And Increasing Your Stamina
and it came out awesome!  I’ve had excellent
feedback from those who were on the call or have listened to the recording.
One woman even said she had used something she learned on the call the
same night!  I shared ways for men to control their ejaculation, ways for
women to become more aroused to reach orgasm and more.

You can listen to the playback if you like – just sign up at https://www.lasvegasmasseuse.com/free-audio-class/ for immediate access.

Make It A Sexy Day,
Nikki

Oily Fun

man massageI set up the massage table and got started with the massage.  He and I talked about business, swinging and new year’s resolutions.  It was nice because we really clicked.

As I finished his first thigh I massaged his groin, pulling my hands from the front side of his groin to his back side in long, slow, firm strokes.  I pressed especially hard on his sit bones while inadvertently grazing his ass crack and asshole.  I saw that he liked it because he spread his legs wider and tilted his pelvis a bit.  With each stroke I got closer and closer to the center of the crack of his ass until my stroke was beginning at the head of his cock, covering his ball sack and running up the crack of his ass to finish just past his tail bone.

Just when his cock was completely rock hard and he was starting to squirm on the table I left the area to work on his calf and foot.  I moved to his other leg and after massaging his glute and thigh I worked my way into his ass crack again to the point of him wiggling a bit.  Stopping, I moved to finish his calf and foot.

I grabbed a hand towel and told him I had to remove a little excess oil.  I wiped off his butt cheeks and the inside of his ass crack.  Climbing on the table behind him in between his legs I put one hand on each cheek and gently spread him open.  After teasing first by blowing cool air and then opening my mouth wide and exhaling warm breath air right onto his asshole, I started kissing the entire area with light little pecks.  Then I began to gently lfoot massageick the area, softly at first, covering the whole area with saliva.  As I became more aroused I used my tongue more and more firmly and directly on the rosebud of his ass.  Swirling, going up and down and side to side, stopping to suck and bite on his ass cheeks, I let him hear my pleasure with moans.

When I’d had enough I got up and got out the gloves.  I trailed them along his body very slowly to give a feather light strokes.  I spent extra time around the buttocks.  I stuck my tongue into his ass crack again as I pulled each glove on.  Getting my gloved hands oiled up, I massaged the anus all around the opening.  Covering my finger with lube I slowly worked it in.  He didn’t enjoy the deeper probing and massaging so I stayed shallow and used my other hand to massage his cock.

After awhile I had him turn onto his back.  He had gone partially soft as all his attention was on his anus.  Using my mouth I got his dick completely covered with saliva and then slowly started moving my lips up and down his shaft.  As soon as he came to a full erection I stopped and began to massage the front of his leg.  When I was finished with the first leg he had gone a little soft again so once again I used my mouth to gently and slowly get him hard.  He talked about how he enjoyed feeling my boobs on his leg.

Once I finished massaging his leg I rubbed oil all over his groin, belly and chefellatio_smallst.  Climbing on the massage table and coming up between his legs I got on my hands and knees and hovered above him.   I slowly lowered my breasts against his groin and began to grind my chest in all different directions.  Lowering my torso more, I pressed up, sliding up his belly and chest until I could feel his hard cock pressing into my belly.  I gyrated against him randomly licking and biting his chest and neck.  He told me to stop or he would cum.  I held still and asked him if he would like another position.  He wanted the same booby/body rub but on his back side.

He flipped over to lay on his stomach.  I poured oil all over his back and spread oil all over my boobs and belly.  Starting from where his head lay, I climbed onto the table, sliding my breasts down his back starting at his shoulders.  As my torso lined up completely with his I had one knee planted on each side of his head.  I spread his ass cheeks and licked some more and enjoyed the feeling of his hot breath on my inner thigh.

Continuing my body slide I got to the point where my pussy was on his ass.  I took that opportunity to grind my clit against his tailbone.  Because of all the oil my pussy lips were able to spread completely open and I could feel the texture of his skin against every bit of my vulva and inner labia as I gyrated against him.

I continued the body slide down his legs and turned around.  Putting my face to his ass again I joked about how his ass smelled like pussy and oh my gosh tasted like it too!  Again I slid up his back pressing my boobs into him until my pussy was lined up with his ass and I ground my clit into his tail bone.  I was kissing and nibbling all around his upper back, shoulders, neck and ears.  His excitement was building as he started moving around beneath me and grinding his ass up into me.

I slid back down him and told him to get on his knees.  Taking his cock in one hand and his balls in the other I licked his ass up and down the crack letting saliva drip down covering his balls and then his cock.  As they became more and more slick I continued to massage him using broader strokes.  I alternated my motions on his cock, pulling it with it pointing I heart licking asstoward his chest and then stretching it back as far as it would go against his ass so I could suck on it from behind.  Several times I moved my mouth from place to place – cock, balls, ass, cock, balls, ass – until he told me he was going to cum and I made sure to keep my fist pumping his cock rhythmically while I pressed my face into his ass.  I was rewarded with the feeling of gush after gush of hot cum on my palm and running down my wrist as his pelvis jerked and spasmed against my face.

Cross-Dressers, Female Orgasms, Tandem Couples Erotic Massage And More!

Wow this was an amazing weekend and I just had to share a quick overview.  Hopefully I will have time to write about some of the stories in greater detail.

The fun started Friday night when I got to meet with my cross dressing friend/client.  I will write more about this on my BDSM site MistressIvana.me but suffice it to say – HOT KINKY FUN!!!

Saturday morning my husband and I went to a workshop to learn about orgasmic meditation.  This is the website of the organization that gave the workshop http://www.onetaste.us/index.php It was an amazing experience and I can’t wait to start OMing on a regular basis!

That evening we went straight from the workshop to the Bellagio to meet with a couple that wanted to receive sensual erotic massages at the same time from my husband and I.  It was very different because he only comes on appointments with me once in a blue moon.  The couple was amazing – I hope my husband and I are as connected and happy as they were after over 30 years of marriage!

Sunday was good and busy!  I got to give a cute young man amazing anal stimulation and have hot completely satisfying sex.  Then I met with a gent who has a pantyhose/foot fetish.  We stretched his boundaries a bit and then he stretched my behind a bit as we had an orgasmic greek session followed by a very deep and completely satisfying climax for him orally.

Yes, it was a good weekend!  Now to get the brakes fixed on my car:)

New York Sex Adventures Part 4 of 6

I have my one client/friend that in another universe I would want to date and have a relationship with – that is how good he makes me feel and how talented he is with my body!  But things are what they are so I’m glad we can meet the way we do.  He loves to worship my ass.  We start by getting in bed and snuggling and kissing.  He has the perfect touch for my nipples which is a rare thing since they are very sensitive.  Then he went down under the covers and licked my pussy and sucked on the hair I have over the pubic bone.  After thoroughly licking my pussy up and down he said to lift my legs so he could lick my ass.  I said I had an even better idea and I turned over onto my knees bending down and putting my chest all the way down onto the bed.  I had my knees spread wide and he leaned forward and started out with kissing my butt cheeks, working his way in toward my ass crack and eventually licking the rose bud making me feel totally wonderful.  I stretched out my legs, laying on my stomach and put my legs together.  He slid his dick in the crease between my legs and we ground our bodies together building up the heat between us.  All of a sudden he came all over my thighs!  It felt so hot and creamy and turned me on that much more!  We kissed and cuddled while I played with my pussy and got almost to the point of orgasm.  By then he was hard again so I got a condom and climbed on top of him.  While grinding on his cock and playing with my clit he played with my nipples in his perfect way and I came hard!  After I caught my breath I started moving again and after a few strokes he had another explosive orgasm:)

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New York Sex Adventures Part 2 of 6

I love seeing people on a repeat basis!  I had a friend/client come see me.  He was visiting from a nearby city.  I have to say, I have a definite kink for older men – the naughtiness of it is extremely stimulating to me.  I enjoyed myself, giving him a slow, sensual massage and then using my mouth on his ass:)

I’m grateful I did get to see a couple of clients/friends from my last New York visit!  One of them is very much into anal play:)  He showed up and took a quick shower.  Then we went straight to a 69 position using a dental dam for me and a condom for him because he is also super ultra safe!  He ate my pussy and my ass getting me entirely worked up.  I gave him a loving blow job and then got out the dental dam and gloves and alternately rimmed his ass and fingered/massaged it.  He started massaging my ass and pussy with his gloved fingers also and it was so hot being there on top of him with my legs spread open hovering above him.  After I was completely aroused and he was getting fairly aggressive with my ass he asked if I was ready to fuck.  I said yes and slid myself down his body and sitting up I got into reverse cowgirl.  I was so ready from him playing with my ass I was able to take him in fairly quickly and after a few strokes I was relaxed to his girth.  As soon as that happened I started grinding on his cock.  After doing that for awhile I used my hands to spread my ass cheeks and started bouncing up and down on his cock.  It was so hot and not long before he came while fucking my little asshole.

I was so turned on after that session I continued masturbating, pussy fucking and ass fucking myself and even using my vibrator cumming again and again until I was finally satisfied:)

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New York Sex Adventures Part 1 of 6

It’s been awhile since I’ve shared a truly stimulating story and I’m just about bursting at the seams with some of the hot things I did while in New York!  So I’ve written them all down but it was so long that I had to break it up into 6 parts!  Keep coming back to read about all my New York adventures:)

One gentleman wanted to rub his dick all over my hips and he talked dirty to me about all these fantasies.  He said some of the nastiest things – talking about enemas, forced orgasm, bondage and the like – but I could tell it was getting him totally hot and I joined right in.  It got to the point where he felt he had to fuck me and couldn’t wait any longer (we had been waiting for another girl to join us).  He was fucking me slowly continuing with his dirty talk when she arrived.  He let her in and had her sit in a chair while he finished with me.  That was hot, having a stranger there that I didn’t even know!

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I Love Visitors!

Hello!  A lot of my clients come to town for conventions.  They always make sure a session with me is on their itinerary:)  I’ve even be contacted months in advance so the person could ensure they would secure a time with me.  That’s a great idea because sometimes I do travel or get busy.

Speaking of which, here is some of my upcoming travel dates and some of the biggest conventions coming into town:

9/7-9/8 -International Vision Expo West 2012  (oooh eye doctors – that could get kinky!)

9/12-9/14 – GlassBuild America 2012

9/19-9/23 – I’ll be in LA for a convention and to meet with clients

9/24-9/26 – Mine Expo 2012

9/27-9/29 – Mr. Olympia 2012  (ooooh bodybuilders)

I look forward to meeting with peeps from all these shows and more in the next few weeks.

For the best experience with me I recommend reading some of my blog posts and sending me an email.  That way you have a good idea of my attitude and interests and via email you can communicate with me about what kind of an experience you would like to have with me.

 

Prostate Massage With Light Domination

He wanted to explore being a little submissive.  We started with some back massage and talked until I became completely clear on what his desires were.

I massaged his glutes and thighs.  I slipped my hands between his ass cheeks pulling them from front to back over and over.  I massaged all around his sits bones and both his sphincters.  I rubbed up and down his tail bone and sacrum paying special attention to the notches I could feel there.  I stroked down his perineum toward his scrotum using an extremely gentle and teasing touch arousing him to the point where he was lifting his pelvis and sticking his ass in the air.

I spread his ass cheeks and licked his entire anal area.  I did sweet circles around his sphincter and long wet strokes from the base of his scrotum to the tip of his tail bone.  I pulled his cock down so it was pointing the same direction as his legs.  I nibbled on his scrotum, sucked pulling the testicles inside into my mouth one at a time at first then both together.

Leaving a wet trail of saliva as I went, I tongued my way down to the tip of his cock.  I spent extra time swirling my tongue around the sweet spot at the back of the head before taking the entire head of his cock into my mouth and alternately sucking it and swirling my tongue all the way around it and sticking the tip of my tongue in the slit.

I went back to licking in between his ass cheeks as I put on gloves.  Once they were on I slowly teased his outer sphincter, pressing in every direction, slowly sinking my finger tip in to the first knuckle.  I applied more oil and using my fingertip I pushed it into his anus again and again making sure every fold was completely lubricated.

Sinking my finger deeper, I curled it around his tailbone and massaged his sacrum from the inside.  I tugged on his cock with my other hand as I stroked the back wall of his ass.  I slowly rotated my finger stopping frequently to stroke the walls of his pelvic floor.  Eventually my finger came to his prostate.  I pressed in against his prostate, then I swirled my finger around the edges of it massaging it from all angles.

I was ready to work on his cock some more so I had him role onto his back.

I massaged the front of his thighs, his entire groin area (avoiding his cock) and his abdomen.  Finally my fingers reached his hard cock and gently and teasingly I explored every part of it finding where he was most sensitive and responsive.  Then I lowered my face so my mouth was right in front of his dick head and opened my mouth and exhaled warm wet breath onto it as I watched his face.  As my exhale ended he relaxed his head back onto the table.  The anticipation had built to a breaking point.

Opening even wider I sunk my head down until his cock was as deep as it could go down my throat.  Then I carefully wrapped my lips, cheeks and tongue around it and started bobbing up and down.  At the same time I pressed my finger into his asshole and pressed into his prostate.  He was enjoying it so much I slowly added a second finger.  He felt like I was totally stuffing his ass but he was so aroused that it felt good.  While I continued using my mouth to slobber and slide up and down his cock I used my fingers to alternately finger fuck him, massage his tailbone and massage his prostate.

He said he liked eating pussy so I stopped what I was doing, walked to the head of the massage table and climbed up, placing my pussy in front of his eager face.  I was completely swollen and wet and as I straddled his face it was easy for him to find my clit.  He did an excellent job of tonguing me as I leaned forward and sucked his cock.  I also reached up and put a finger in his ass.

The erotic energy was building and I could tell he was approaching an orgasmic state.  I told him he had to ask before he could cum.  About a minute later he asked.  I said no.  I sat up, still on his face and rubbed all around his groin area and told him to relax his legs and feet.

Then I went back to sucking and finger fucking.  Shortly he asked me again as his legs were getting more and more tense.  This time I got up and got my straps and strapped his legs to the table in and open position.  After a few minutes I was satisfied he would not be able to pull his knees together or straighten his legs no matter what.

I climbed back on his face, leaned over and took his cock in my mouth and put my fingers in his ass.  Then I began to slowly and rhythmically bob my head up and down for tip to base while simultaneously sliding my finger all the way out of his ass then all the way in pressing into the prostate.

The tension built again and this time his legs were straining against the straps.  He started bucking his pelvis up and down, slowly at first but then I gave him permission to cum and he started pumping away fucking up into my mouth until he blew a huge amount of cum into my mouth.  I didn’t stop sucking or finger fucking him and as he fucked in and out of my mouth the cum dribbled down his cock and down making a sticky hot mess.  Finally he relaxed, spent, and I released his cock from my mouth and removed my finger from his ass.

 

It’s Your Choice

Hi!

I’ve received a few interesting calls so I thought I should address this issue.

People have asked if I have to do anal on them.  No, if you don’t like anal I won’t do it.  Period.  I don’t do anything you don’ want.

A couple has asked if I have to include BDSM.  No, if you want sensual and erotic playtime or massage time with out additional kinks or fetishes, that’s fine!

On this blog I tend to write about my more extreme sessions.  I do this because I have to share them with someone!  I mean, all these experiences build up inside and this is the perfect outlet.  I do talk to telly about it – but aren’t they entertaining?  I like the idea that my erotic writing is giving arousal to people across the united stated (and around the world).

Things we do during our time together are catered and customized to you and your preferences.  If you want to experience something new, terrific.  If you want to push a limit, I’m the girl to do it.  If you want to totally relax and just enjoy the moment without worrying about integrating something new and different, that’s fine too.  A lot of my clients don’t even want full service or GFE – and they don’t have to do it.

I also follow whatever boundaries you give me.  I have had sessions using condoms for blow jobs, dental dams for when I licked their ass and for when they ate my pussy, gloves for anal play, and even total outer course – just body to body rubbing without any penetration at all.  All of that is good!

Stay Sexy!
Nikki